So truth be told, I had a few topics lined up for this week,

But given that I feel like things have been getting increasingly heavy - in the news sure, but even here at BSW, even my own poems,

Like, on the way here I noticed someone had stolen a single battery out of my bike light?

shit’s rough out there.

So I thought I'd come to you with something more lighthearted.

And originally my intro was going to be a bit of a joke.

It was gonna go like this:

So this guy that I've been seeing, we're at that point in our relationship where we have the spare keys to each other's apartments, but we're also saying it's nothing serious, so you know, situationships in Berlin, am I right?

I love this city.

But I actually can't make that joke anymore, because as of yesterday, we're official.

So if you’ve keeping up with my life drama, this did not stay on the market for very long, it's true, but I'm over the moon, this guy's amazing.

And actually this spoken word is co-written with him.

It's basically an adaptation of a conversation we had.

And the topic is also the trigger warning, which is sex.

I'm going to be talking about a few aspects of sex and our perspectives of it, him contributing as a straight man and me contributing as a queer woman.

So a bit more context, neither of us is super experienced, okay?

Between the two of us, our total body count is probably 10 people, and that's with both of us counting each other.

However, we both have had universal feedback from everybody we've ever slept with, telling or showing us that we are, quote, good in bed, end quote.

And the thing is, both of us have actually been really confused by this, because whenever we sleep with someone, in our heads, literally all we are doing is showing enthusiasm.

So after a recent bout of quote, good sex, unquote - we were trying to figure out this mystery - specifically, what makes him good in bed?